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Memories of Our Beloved Housekeeper Mrs. I

The movie, ‘The Help’ was such an amazing film.  Watching it brought back my childhood memories of growing up in the Deep South. My parents had a housekeeper most of my life. The last one we had was with us from the time I was 12 years old until she retired from our family when I was at University.

Mrs. I was an older, white, country lady that had a smile as big as Texas. My Father loves to tell the story of how he hired her on the spot before even checking her references. "It was her big smile", my Father said that got her the job. My parents were desperate to hire someone after they had to fire the previous lady for negligence. I can't remember her name but she would literally forget to feed us.  Mom and Dad always treated the ladies that worked for us very well but I think my terror of a brother was the problem. ;)

Mrs. I was the most amazing Southern Cook and she did everything for us. (Cooking, cleaning, grocery shopping, nanny, driver, etc.) She didn't even finish high school but she was extremely intelligent and could help us with our homework. My Mother said we had to call her a housekeeper and not a maid which was degrading. She lived in a trailer in the country, was afraid of the dentist and walked around the kitchen barefoot. (I swear on my life I’m not making this up!)

The first night she cooked for us she sat down at the table with us and ate there until her last working night. A few of Dad's clients even tried to steal her away after tasting her delicious Southern cooking. One invited female guest asked my Mother one night why the help was allowed to eat at our dinner table. The "B" was never invited back to our house because she had insulted our newest family member, Mrs. I.

Dad paid her a good wage and into her social security. She didn't wear a uniform because she wouldn't dream of doing it. She bought her clothes at Wal-Mart and JC Penney. When her car broke down he bought her what she wanted (a used truck) and he always took care of anything she needed.  She in return took care of us and we felt so loved. 

One year my Father lost a lot of money in the stock market and he was very short on cash. I don't remember much because my parents sheltered us from those things. He explained to Mrs. I that he was giving her one month's severance pay because he didn't think he could afford to keep her anymore. He said he understood if she left right away to look for another family but he would make his money again and hire her back as soon as he could. The next day she showed up to work and then the next. She never stopped coming to our house until we were all at University and she retired. Dad recovered financially very fast and never missed paying her on time.  The truth is that she didn't think of us as her job anymore, she thought of us as her family.

Mrs. I wasn't just our housekeeper she was and is a part of our family. To this day she visits my parents every year as our beloved guest. When I think of Mrs. I, I always think of the love she gave us and how much we in return love her.

Chick Flick Must See ~ 'The Help'


The Help is a 2009 novel by American author Kathryn Stockett. The story is about African American maids working in white households in Jackson, Mississippi during the early 1960s.

The novel is told from the point of view of three narrators: Aibileen Clark, a middle-aged African-American maid who has spent her life raising white children, and who has recently lost her only son; Minny Jackson, an African-American maid whose back-talk towards her employers results in her having to frequently change jobs, exacerbating her desperate need for work as well as her family's struggle with money; and Eugenia "Skeeter" Phelan, a young white woman and recent college graduate who, after moving back home, discovers that a maid that helped raise her since childhood has abruptly disappeared and her attempts to find her have come to naught. The stories of the three women intertwine to explain how life in Jackson, Mississippi revolves around "the help", with complex relations of power, money, emotion, and intimacy tying together the white and black families of Jackson.

A USA Today article called it one of 2009's "summer sleeper hits". An early review in The New York Times notes Stockett's "affection and intimacy buried beneath even the most seemingly impersonal household connections" and says the book is a "button-pushing, soon to be wildly popular novel". The Atlanta Journal-Constitution said of the book, "This heartbreaking story is a stunning debut from a gifted talent".

The novel is Stockett's first. It took her five years to complete the book, which was rejected by 60 literary agents before agent Susan Ramer agreed to represent Stockett. The Help has since been published in 35 countries and three languages.  As of August 2011, it has sold five million copies and has spent more than a 100 weeks on the The New York Times Best Seller list. (Source)

I loved this movie and it really made me reflect on my childhood.  The film takes place in the early 1960's but some things hadn't changed even in the 1990's in the Deep South.  This is when I was partially raised until I was around 7 years old by two African American maids, Emma & Gloria.  

My family treated them very well but they did wear uniforms and rode the bus to work.  I asked my Mother not too long ago (before I ever heard about the book or movie) what happened to Emma & Gloria and why did she make them wear uniforms? Just like the movie my Mother told me they just quit one day without any explanation and that they preferred to wear uniforms.

I know my parents treated them very well but maybe they left because of my brother. He was a little monster who threatened to have them fired if they didn't serve him ice cream for dinner when my parents were out.  He would throw water balloons down the laundry chute and hit them on the head.  Maybe it was something I did that I can't even write about because it's too embarrassing.

I still remember loving Emma & Gloria and how much I missed them when they were gone.  They were a part of our family and I wish they knew how much I appreciate them now.


Please Bring Bubba Gump Shrimp Co. Restaurant and Market to Kuwait



I'm not a fan of the American chain restaurants in Kuwait but this is one restaurant I would cheer for! 

Please bring Bubba Gumps to Kuwait and make this Expat really happy. :*



Death Threats to Hayati


Ever since I read about the opening of the Nestle Toll House Cafe in Kuwait on Danderma's Blog I've had some wicked cookie cravings.  I just gotta have them and tonight's the night.  I can't wait to have one in my mouth with a cold glass of milk to chase it down.   

Minutes later I found myself calling him...

Hinting and hinting that I wanted him to drive in the crazy Ramadan traffic to go and get them tonight after Fotoor.  He wouldn't budge and said we can go tomorrow.  WTH??? Excuse me? Do you mean NO? Damn, I"m losing my touch.  I'm not used to the word no in English or Kuwaiti.  *Sulking*

He said he didn't sleep well so he wants to nap after Fotoor and go tomorrow.  His entire family is in Europe for the summer so we are pretty much on our own except for a few family members and the staff.  No, no, no, no I said I have to have them tonight!  He started laughing and said tomorrow princess.  So I lovingly threatened his life and it worked. Seriously! He's afraid of me and you would be too if you stood between me and my Nestle Toll House Cookies. 

Dear Nestle: I have a confession to make on my Mother's behalf.  My Mom uses your store bought cookie dough and mashes it in a bowl.  She adds fresh pecans, spice and spoons it on a cooking sheet to give the illusion that they are homemade.  Then she tells everyone that they are her secret family recipe from scratch. Basically, my Mother is a big fat liar when it comes to her cookies so I thought I would let you know the truth.  It's embarrassing and now my cookie conscience is clear.

Photo credit ~ Nestle.com


Heart of a Soul Surfer: The Bethany Hamilton Documentary



Soul Surfer ~ Official Trailer


This is the movie I'm watching right now. I couldn't wait until it came to Kuwait so I could see it. What an inspirational story about following your dreams and never giving up. I highly recommend this film but grab your tissue girls. ;)

I love vacationing in Hawaii and watching the North Shore surfers in winter. One of my favorite memories is driving a convertible Ford Mustang (rented) from Wakiki beach to the North Shore with my Dad to watch the surfers ride the big waves.

Justice for Jamie


American Girl, Jamie Leigh Jones, Claims After Iraq Rape Employer Held Her Against Her Will

 


Thank you Bananamonkee

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Lady Carolyn on LUDO BITES AMERICA - "Yes Chef"



Chef, Mardi Gras Princess, restaurant owner and family friend Lady Carolyn is featured on - LUDO BITES AMERICA - "Yes Chef" and I really want to watch it.  PLEASE HELP! How Can I get the Sundance Channel in Kuwait?

Not Your Grandma's Recipe

Classically trained to remake the classics, Ludo Lefebvre is a 5-star French chef who’s writing his own restaurant rulebook. Now, Ludo is on a mission to blend his extraordinary culinary talents with everyday eats. He and business partner/wife, Krissy, are hitting the road to reinvent American cuisine. From Carolina barbeque to New Mexico chiles, each episode finds Ludo and Krissy setting up their innovative touring restaurant at a local eatery desperate for fresh ideas. While Ludo takes a crash course in US culture, Krissy is out generating buzz for opening night. If it pans out, they’ll fill seats and stomachs. Working together with their hosts, the creative duo try to fuse Ludo’s high-end cooking with American classics and reignite a community’s passion for food – inspiring them to live a little more outside their comfort food zone.

Ludo Bites America with Queen G’s

The art of the pop-up restaurant was taken to the next level recently by Chef Ludo Lefebvre, host of "LudoBites.” The French born Lefebvre has been seen on the "Today” show, "Iron Chef America,” and has received countless praise from the greatest chefs in the world. His new series, "LudoBites America” is slated to begin mid-July on the Sundance Channel and the chef will be traveling to six different cities for one episode each.

The very first episode is centered around Chef Ludo’s visit to Mobile. One of the renowned chef’s stops was at Queen G’s CafĂ© on Old Shell Road in beautiful Midtown Mobile.

Congratulations to Carolyn and the gang at Queen G’s and our other talented local chefs for playing host to one of the top 50 chefs in the world. I know they are as excited as we are.

I’ll keep you posted as to the exact airdate once I receive word. For more information on Chef Ludo, check out http://www.ludolefebvre.com/. For excellent fried oysters visit Queen G’s.

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You Might Be a Girl from the USA living in Kuwait if...



Your closet is full of the latest high-end handbags and sunglasses from Versace, Prada, Channel, Coach, Gucci, LV and there all fake!


You have long, silky, gorgeous hair and it was manufactured in China or chopped off a peasant girl in Bangladesh. Teeheehee! (Ladies, you look amazing! :*)


You came to Kuwait to save $$$ but you end up spending it all on the Al Corniche Club, shopping, eating out, weekly salon visits, travel and plastic surgery.



Diet is a four letter word and exercise is blasphemy. Why bother when it's too hot in Kuwait. Besides you can just get cheap weight loss surgery and liposuction.


You end up dating a guy that wears a white dress (dishdasha), drowns himself in cologne and lives with his Mommy and Daddy.


You came to Kuwait speaking English only but quickly become fluent in Tagalog, Hindi, Egyptian and Kuwaiti curse words.


You deprogram yourself so you don't look, smile, laugh or greet strangers in public because that could lead to an unwanted male stalker begging for your mobile number or following you to your apartment. "Hi blondie, I want friend, I am good guy...do you live alone?"


You’re not sure where your oven is because you've never actually used it.


You don't need a man because your building Haras will fix / carry / wash everything for some KD and then leave you alone.


You don't want to return to the USA to live again because you can't imagine life without your live-in maid.


You claim to be a nonsmoker but your shisha habit is the equivalent to 70 cigarettes a day.

Photo credit: David Perry

You watch the guy pump cheap gas in your car and remember those awful days way back when you had to actually get out of your car, do it yourself and it cost a fortune.


You used to think only 50% of American men cheated on their wives.  In Kuwait it seems like 99.9% :(


Even on your ugliest day when you have major PMS and want to stay in your bed and hide, you get hit on by at least five desperate guys.


* An exaggerated list ~ Just for fun! I <3 American girls.  Yes, my hair is real! :)

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I'm Afraid of Spiders

Big and ugly spider inside my brother's Florida house

I received this email on Thursday from my brother in Florida:

Subject: Spider in the shower

Look at what I was greeted with when I got out of the shower. The biggest spider I've ever seen up close and personal. Looked like a taranchula. Anyone know what kind of spider it is as it was about 5"in diameter with its legs. Freaky.

Dearest brother, I think it's a Huntsman spider which is sometimes referred to as the Wood spider

P.S. I will not visit your house anytime soon ;P

Love always,

Mom and Dad's favorite child :P



Southern Women

Gone With The Wind

Southern women know their summer weather report:

Humidity

Humidity

Humidity


Southern women know their vacation spots:

The beach

The rivuh

The crick


Southern women know everybody's first name:

Honey

Darlin'

Shugah


Southern women know the movies that speak to their hearts:

Fried Green Tomatoes

Driving Miss Daisy

Steel Magnolias

Gone With The Wind


Southern women know their religions:

Baptist

Methodist

Football


Southern women know their cities dripping with Southern charm:

Chawl'stn

S'vanah

Foat Wuth

N'awlins

Addlanna


Southern women know their elegant gentlemen:

Men in uniform

Men in tuxedos

Rhett Butler


Southern girls know their prime real estate:

The Mall

The Country Club

The Beauty Salon


Southern girls know the 3 deadly sins:

Having bad hair and nails

Having bad manners

Cooking bad food


Even Southern babies know that "Gimme some sugar" is not a request for the white, granular sweet substance that sits in a pretty little bowl in the middle of the table.


More Suthen-ism's:

Only a Southerner knows the difference between a hissie fit and a conniption fit, and that you don't "HAVE" them, you "PITCH" them.

Thank you Carolyn :*

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Southern Girls (Urban Dictionary)  Looool

The best girls around. They are always pretty and show themselves well. Normally dressed in their easter colored polos, lacostes, or michael stars. Allways (well, usually) seen wearing there name brand jeans blue cult, 7's, citizens, angel, paper denim, etc...Accesories always consist of them pearl earings. Simple yet ellegant. All southern girls own at least 1 surf shop or restaurant T-shirt from somewhere on the coast, most likely Wrightsville. Found cruising around in their silver or green Range Rovers or Land Rovers, and if not, volvos or station wagons. Hangouts consist of North Hills (if your familliar with Raleigh, NC), or any place that serves fresh ice tea and warm grits. The music they listen to is usually very mellow, like Dave Matthews, OAR, James Taylor, Alanis Morrissette, Hootie, Jack Johnson, Jimmy Buffet, Rascal Flatts, etc...Southern hospitality runs in the family. Southern households are the most generous of them all, which makes southern girls, the sweetest.

Kuwait Raises $3 Million to Fund Charity Group

Ben Affleck, Rima Al-Sabah and Sen. John McCain at the Kuwait-America gala dinner at the Kuwaiti embassy, 2011. (Vicky Pombo)

WASHINGTON: Kuwait's Ambassador to the US Sheikh Salem Al-Sabah and his wife Sheikha Rima Al-Sabah, with the cooperation of Kuwait-America Foundation held, with the participation of former US President Bill Clinton, a gala dinner entitled 'Enduring Support,' where $3 million was raised to fund USO, an organization that provides many humane services to the US forces and their families in the US and overseas.

Guest of Honor, former US President Bill Clinton, praised in a speech he delivered at the Gala Dinner the role the Kuwait-America Foundation plays for humanitarian causes, "I am grateful because this Foundation, thanks to the Ambassador and his wife, work on things I care a lot about and some things I have been involved with in the Middle East, including education especially for girls and health care.

I am grateful for the work the Foundation has done in building schools and I am really grateful for your support for building two USO centers," he affirmed. "It's really important to me that America never forgets the long term collateral costs of our commitments beginning with the first Gulf War including the conflict in Iraq and the conflict in Afghanistan," Clinton noted.

Clinton praised Kuwait, "Kuwait has done remarkably well. Kuwait has got a multi-party democracy," and it is "one of the most free places in the Middle East in terms of the press," he affirmed. He shed light on a recent study that shows that the average Kuwaiti spends 20 hours a week using the internet, "there is a studied effort to manage this transition into the future.

He said that he thinks Kuwait, "maybe because it had to fight for its own independence, because it was invaded and occupied, has a really good chance to make the future and the US is a strong and proud ally." He added "what we have to keep doing what this Foundation does. You have to develop the young women as well as the young man. You have to emphasize education and health care.

There has to be a sense that things are moving in the right direction," he stressed. Clinton affirmed that he was 'thrilled' when former President George Bush conferred in 2004 'major non-NATO ally' status on Kuwait, saying "I am actually quite optimistic about the future.

I am here just to say thank you to Kuwait for the example you set and the friendship you have given, to wish you well and say that I think I am not the only American here who considers himself or herself a friend of your country and friend of the process that you have been pursuing for many years now," Clinton remarked.

The former President addressed the Ambassador and his spouse saying "when you do things" like build schools and involve more girls and women in the political and social life of their country and open more, not just educational but economic opportunities that too help to stabilize a society in a positive way so that change can occur. 
Kuwait's Ambassador to the US Sheikh Salem Al-Sabah said that the Embassy has selected the USO for its gala dinner this year as it is a special commemorative year, "as we celebrate Kuwait's 20th anniversary of liberation and due to the major role the US troops played in that regard.

He added that therefore the Embassy focused through its gala dinner this year on the USO, which offers support of the armed American troops, as an initiative from the Embassy to offer gratitude for them." He indicated that he sensed a 'deep appreciation' from several of the top US officials who participated in the Gala for selecting this American organization that provides morale and recreational services to members of the US military.

In his speech, Sheikh Salem said "we're proud to be celebrating the 70th anniversary of the USO, and to support its efforts to care for America's heroic wounded warriors, in a year that also marks the 20th anniversary of Kuwait's liberation." "Twenty years may seem like a long time ago but for Kuwaitis, the events of occupation and liberation are seared forever in our memories," he stressed.

The people of Kuwait will always be grateful to our friends in the United States for the sacrifices they made to stand with us in our hour of need," he remarked. The Ambassador noted, "we honor the US military for their courage and their skill, and for their service-every day-on behalf of security and peace.

We are proud that our close ties with this country have only grown from the opening of the first US consulate in Kuwait, half a century ago to the deep respect and shared sense of duty we feel as major non-NATO allies to the work we do around the world to promote development, stability, and hope," he affirmed.

Sheikha Rima, who is the Gala Founder and Chairman, said that as Kuwait commemorates its 20th anniversary of liberation, the USO has been selected as a gratitude from the Kuwaiti Embassy in Washington to the American troops who played a major role in Kuwait's liberation.

Sheikha Rima stressed that "this year's cause is especially meaningful to me because it coincides with the 20th anniversary of Kuwait's liberation and because we were able through this gala to offer gratitude and appreciation for the American forces." Sheikha Rima said "we who have benefited from others' sacrifice feel a deep responsibility to give back.

What cause could be more appropriate, this year, than to give to the military men and women who give so much of themselves every day and who sometimes return from the battlefield only to face a whole new fight as they struggle to recover from their wounds, and rebuild a normal life," she remarked.

Special guest, Hollywood actor Ben Affleck, who has championed humanitarian issues in the world, said in a speech he delivered at the Gala that many members of his family has served in the military and he has "proudly worked" with the USO.

He shed light on one the trips he has made to the Middle East to visit the American troops. "We all understand that there are people out there who are risking their lives and there are also hundreds of thousands of people for whom this duty has no holiday," he stressed.

He added "I can tell you that there is not one member of the armed forces serving the country overseas who is getting rich doing it." "All they ask of us as civilians is that they be respected, supported, honored and remembered. It is not too much to ask," he remarked.

Affleck indicated that since 2001 nearly two million troops have been sent over to serve under Operation Enduring Freedom and Operation Iraqi Freedom, saying "that is one percent of the country risking their lives to secure the liberty and freedom of the other 99 percent of us." "Security matters. It is more than a slogan. It is life and death," he noted.

Meanwhile, USO President Sloan Gibson expressed his gratitude to Sheikh Salem and his wife for organizing and hosting this "extraordinary event," saying "thank you especially for what this evening will do for our wounded warriors and their families." He affirmed that this event "is a celebration on a number of levels," as the USO turned 70 just about a month ago, "but what is more important is that we join you in commemorating the 20th anniversary of the liberation of Kuwait.

We are grateful for this very special relationship," Gibson said. "If our mission is to lift the spirits of America's troops and families, and we're not doing everything possible for our wounded warriors and their families, and our families of the fallen, then, we're simply not doing our job, " he remarked.

This is the seventh gala dinner the Kuwaiti Embassy in Washington holds during which $11 million has been raised for humanitarian, educational, health and environmental causes in the Asian, African and Latin continents. This year's gala dinner is the first of which the amount raised went to an organization within the US.

Several top senior American officials attended the event , including Bill Clinton, Secretary of Commerce Gary Locke, Transportation Secretary Ray LaHood, Secretary of Education Arne Duncan, Deputy Secretary of Defense William Lynn, Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff Admiral Michael Mullen, Senators John Kerry, Scott Brown and John McCain, also Ben Affleck, Michael Douglas, in addition to other prominent officials and figures. - KUNA

Kuwait Times Link

Washington Post Link

Thank you Kuwait :*

I'm Missing Mardi Gras!


I went on Facebook today and all I saw splattered across everyone's wall was Mardi Gras cheer. All I'm doing is working way too many hours while my life is passing me by in Kuwait. Welcome to my 'pity party'! These projects / deadlines are killing me and I'm starting to resent my job. Sometimes I feel like quitting and just flying home to America. Where I can have enough free time to actually have a real life and celebrate Mardi Gras with my friends and family.

I mentioned this to my Hayati this week when I was complaining about my job. He threatened to put a travel ban on my ass if I even tried to leave Kuwait. I think he is changing his mind about getting married because I’ve turned into 'neurotic girl' over the stress from my job and lack of sleep.  I start to yawn halfway through dinner in the middle of his conversation about his day. He loves to tell me all about his job which is really important and I can barely keep my eyes open from only getting 3 – 5 hours sleep. 

If only I could take 2 weeks away from my job and fly back to enjoy Mardi Gras in my native Louisiana. I’ve been daydreaming about it all day. I can even taste the cold Dixie beer and fresh Alligator road kill for dinner.

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America, Here's Your New Wonder Woman

New Wonder Woman ~ beautiful Adrianne Palicki

Bad guys better get out of town!

A new Wonder Woman has finally been cast for the remake of the classic ‘70s super hero TV series.

The gorgeous Adrianne Palicki, who wowed viewers and Hollywood honchos alike during her brief turn on Fox’s cancelled "Lone Star," will put on her bullet-proof bracelets to play the role made iconic by Lynda Carter.

Palicki was thought to be perfect for the role, and she was the only actress invited to do a screen test. Perhaps Palicki’s statuesque beauty had something to do with it—standing at 5’11”, she’s the ideal height to portray an Amazon crime-fighter.

Prolific producer David E. Kelley teamed with Warner Bros. to bring the series back to television, but not without some hiccups.

The concept was initially shot down by all the major networks. NBC finally gave the green light for Kelley and Warner Bros. to produce a pilot in late January.

In the remake of the classic D. C. Comics character, Wonder Woman/Diana Prince is not just a vigilante crime fighter in modern Los Angeles, but also a successful corporate executive. The series will follow the character trying to balance being a super hero, a businesswoman and a singleton.

Kind of like Ally McBeal , one of Kelley's former creations, with a cape.

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Daily Mail Story Link

Original Wonder Woman Lynda Carter ~ no one could even come close to this 6' natural beauty.




Paula Deen Buffet Photos From One of my Kuwaiti Readers in the USA

The Paula Deen Buffet at the Horseshoe Casino in Southern Indiana (across the river from Louisville, KY)


I'm not into buffets but this is one that I would go to and pig out (oink oink). Khalid emailed me that it was the best buffet in the world.  Thank you for the photographs and information Khalid :) 







Hannity and FOX News Suck!




This morning while drinking my coffee and munching down on a Krispy Kreme doughnut I began to catch up on my favorite blogs.  My friend, Taz @ Bananaq8, posted about FOX News in Arabic with a video in English.  I started watching the video of FOX News and couldn't believe my ears.  What a bunch of offensive morons! They are spreading false information and putting American troops and civilians who live in Kuwait in danger.  Kuwaitis please know that most Americans do not feel this way at all. I love living in Kuwait and it's my second home.


Huffington Post

January 22, 2011

On his Friday show, Sean Hannity wondered why Iraq and Kuwait hadn't "[paid] for their own liberation" by the United States, and said that America has the right to "go in there...and take all their oil."

Hannity was speaking to his nightly "Great American Panel." The panel was discussing high oil prices. Hannity was incredulous and angry at the prospect of oil prices climbing:

" I say why isn't Iraq paying us back with oil, and paying every American family and their soldiers that lost loved ones or have injured soldiers -- and why didn't they pay for their own liberation? For the Kuwait oil minister -- how short his memory is. You know, we have every right to go in there and frankly take all their oil and make them pay for the liberation."




Thanks Taz :*



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